Gaming Consoles – the pros and cons of letting your children play.

Playing along with Kate says stuff.

Today i am very Thankful for this Guest post, and Gaming devices.


Generally mums fall into two categories:
               1. I let my children play video games
               2. I don’t allow my children to play video games

While it can be a divisive topic, there are strengths to each argument. So if your lil’uns are making murmurs about wanting a gaming console this Christmas, here are both sides of the argument to help you make an informed decision!

Why gaming can be good for children
Educational – Not all video games are competition or fighting based. Many video games are educational, and video games that focus on teaching your children things such as basic maths, colours, parts of the body and other basic information supports their learning as they grow.
Helps with their development – Video games can also support and foster a child’s cognitive development by building up their problem solving, perceptual, and motor skills. Often video games present complex scenarios that the players must solve and overcome and often this requires a child to develop a strategy and use quick thinking. Video games can give your child’s brain a real work out.
Team work – A number of video games are played in teams, which gives your child exposure and experience with teamwork – a valuable skill throughout their schooling years. 
Great entertainment source – Everything is good in moderation, and video games can be a great source of entertainment for your kiddies, particularly on a rainy day. If you’re concerned about your child playing video games too much, simply put a limit on the amount of time they can play each day or allow them to play as a treat.  

Why gaming can be bad for children
Social isolation – The more time your child spends playing video games, the less time they will spend reading, playing sport, interacting with friends and family or doing their homework. This has the potential to lead to social isolation.
Violence Video games are most commonly lamented for the violence they contain, particularly because in most war or fighting video games children are rewarded for being violent. A major concern for many parents is that violent video games can encourage aggressive behaviour in their children.
Addictive – Another concern for many parents is that gaming can become addictive for some children. Once gaming reaches an addictive stage, it can have negative consequences on other areas of their lives such as schooling.
Bad for health – There is the argument that video gaming is an indoor and sedentary activity, which can have implications for your child’s help – including obesity and muscular and posture disorders.

If you’re not sure whether you want your child to play video games, it can be a good idea to rent a gaming console to trial how it fits in with your children and your family’s lifestyle. Equipment rental is a smart and affordable way to ‘try’ rather than ‘buy’!

If you’re considering whether a gaming console is the right thing for your children – or the right gift this Christmas – consider the pros and cons listed above!

Do your children have a gaming console?
How do you moderate its use? 


I must admit i fall in to categorie 1. My kids most favourite thing to do is to play video games.

11 comments:

Marita said...

My husband and I disagree over video games, he says it is okay - then again he is the guy who owns, XBox, Wii and playstations so he is very very pro-game.

My issue comes from him thinking it is okay to let our 6yo and 8yo play GTA with him. Not on.

It wouldn't be an issue if they were playing age appropriate games, but they are not :: sigh ::

Unknown said...

I know exactly what you mean and we have the same problem in our house. Males..... lol :)

Sara @ Tis The Life said...

I wanted a Wii last Christmas. I figured if it made exercise fun it would be worth it. Thankfully the Farmer ignored this request otherwise it would be another thing gathering dust I think.

Unknown said...

Sara my partner got me the wii for Christmas a few years ago, for the exercise. It was fantastic for the first few months, now it has a rather thick coating of dust on it. :)

Ai Sakura said...

That's like our family too!! We don't Play with the Wii at all now... However, must say that my bub loves to use the iPad and I think that brings up the same concerns as games consoles heh

Ai @ Sakura Haruka

Kristen said...

You raise some good points Jane!

Mr 5 has a Vtech console and that's it, unless you count my iPhone.

He only plays it occasionally and prefers to be outside so for us getting anything else would be a waste of money. I find that if he's in front of the TV for too long (either watching cartoons or playing a game) his behaviour changes dramatically for the worst, so it's something we have to monitor carefully anyway.

I found you via kate says stuff, and I'm glad I did, I look forward to reading more :-)

Kate said...

We have a Wii that is used regularly, it's mostly a rainy day fallback but we don't have any of the realistic war type games. The worst we have are the Star Wars and Harry Potter Lego games, which I love too lol!

Jay said...

We have a Wii, but only for the sport and singing games, no fighting. The girls generally have a short time on it and then it doesn't get used for quite a while.

I guess the key is moderation.

♥.Trish.♥ Drumboys said...

Great post Jane.

We are just getting a Gaming Console for the twins (it's a blu ray too) but I will moderate the games and have a strict time limit on them too.

I think it is our responsibility to ensure they use them wisely for all the good reasons you mentioned.

I was told a story of a mother who refused to let her sons play gaming consoles - when her boys were old enough for 'play dates' 7-8 yrs - no one wanted to come to their house and their sons were rarely at home by high school age.

Plus she couldn't monitor what they were playing. She gave in to see more of her kids.

It was the same with my teenager - now 18yr old , we had a few G rated & PG games but his friends had much higher rated ones 15+ & ^.
Particularly his best friend - whose non custodial separated Father bought him & his older brother the 15+ games on visits.
The mother couldn't confiscate them.

Life Love and Hiccups said...

We have a Wii, A play station 2, Playstation 3, DS's and ipads. But my guys are only allowed to play them on the weekends or in school holidays and they have to earn vouchers. They can be awarded a 30 minute voucher for good bevaiour, but they cannot play more than 1 hour a day. xx

Unknown said...

@Sonia - We have a similar set up here.

My kids have chores, each chore they do they get $5 and $10 (play money) Which turns in to minutes (instead of $10 it is 10 minutes)
First they need to do there chores to earn the minutes, then they have to buy there game time, which can be spent on weekends or school holidays or some weekdays if all there chores are done and homework is finished. It seems to be working just nicely. :)